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Every one of these is free, taken alone on your own phone, and scored without your answers ever leaving it. Pick the row that describes you today — not the one you are hoping for. You can take another later, and most people do.
| Start with | If this is you | The question it answers | You receive | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Readiness Profile For Him · 75 questions · 20 min |
A single man, nobody particular in view | “Could the man I am this month carry a marriage?” | Your Readiness Map — six areas marked ready, growing or not yet | Begin |
| The Readiness Profile For Her · 90 questions · 20 min |
A single woman, nobody particular in view | “Could the woman I am this month carry a marriage?” | Your Readiness Map — eight areas marked ready, growing or not yet | Begin |
| The Discernment Check For Her · 75 questions · 15 min |
A woman who has met someone and decided nothing | “Am I seeing a pattern, or a possibility?” | Your Clarity Map — what you have seen beside what you have already given | Begin |
| The Discernment Check For Him · 85 questions · 15 min |
A man who has met someone and decided nothing | “Am I seeing a pattern, or a possibility?” | Your Clarity Map — and the questions you have not yet asked her | Begin |
| The Let’s Talk Assessment Pre-Marriage · 136 questions · 45 min |
A courting or engaged couple | “Which conversations have we truly had?” | Your Conversation Map — eight doors, open, half-open or closed | Begin |
| The Happily Ever After Check-Up Married · 120 questions · 35 min |
A married couple, one year in or thirty | “What has quietly closed since we married?” | Your Marriage Map — and the same eight doors, retaken | Begin |
| The Intimacy Check Single, engaged or married · 15 min |
Anyone who wants this part of life spoken about properly | “Can we say true things about this — out loud?” | Your Intimacy Map — freedom, talk and connection | Begin |
If you are single, start with the Readiness Profile. If you have met somebody, start with the Discernment Check. If there is a date in the diary, start with the Let’s Talk Assessment. Nothing you take is wasted — each one feeds the next.
Your results are kept on the phone you took them on. Open your journey to see them, or sign in to keep them when you change phone.
Then no assessment is the right first step, and we will not pretend otherwise. Read this instead — it takes two minutes and it does not score you.