The Facilitator’s Manual
Nine parts, written not padded. What each instrument measures, how to read a Map without turning it
into a verdict, the six movements of a debrief, what to say when a couple goes quiet, and what never to
say. Yours the day you certify, in English or French.
Session scripts
Four sessions for the Pre-Marriage Assessment, two for the Check-Up, written out line by line so a
first debrief is not an improvisation.
Named as one of ours
You are certified by us and we will say so — to a church that asks, and to a couple we cannot
take ourselves. As the number of certified Facilitators grows we will publish a list people can search;
until then referrals come through us, by hand.
A dashboard, and its limits
Make a code for each couple, hand it over however you already talk to them, and watch it move from
invited to started to finished. Keep private notes between sessions.
You will never be shown a couple’s answers or their score, because we do not
hold them. You see a Map when they hand it to you in the room, and not before.
The Covenant Track
The discipleship layer: Scripture, prayer and the theology of covenant, mapped door by door for
churches that want it.
Safeguarding module
Recognising coercive control, what to do when a report raises a flag, how to refer, and what never to
say to a woman who has just told you the truth. This module is examined and cannot be skipped.
