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There is nothing for your church to sign up to and no system to administer. Your members already have the assessments — they are free to everybody, forever. What a church needs is the teaching material and somebody who knows how to use it, and that is all we sell.
How it actually works
Free, alone, on their own phones, whether or not your church is involved. They print their Map and bring it. You will never see anybody’s answers, and neither will we — the scoring happens on their phone and the result never leaves it.
The leader guides and the couples’ journals for the courses you want to run. Bought once, yours to use, with every revision as it is released.
Denis and Arit train you and your leaders directly, online or in person. After that the teaching belongs to your church: you run it, you train the next set of leaders, and you do not need us in the room.
Every assessment on this site is free to your congregation whether you buy anything or not, and it will stay that way. There is no church account, no member list, no dashboard and no report we could send you — not because we are withholding it, but because there is no table in our database holding a single answer. That is the whole architecture, and it is the reason people in your church will answer honestly.
What you would be buying
Each one pairs a free assessment your members take alone with a course you teach from the book. Take one, or take all four. They are independent.
Four meetings · six sessions
Men read Let’s Talk About Him, women read Let’s Talk About Her — each room studying the book about itself. Three meetings apart, the fourth together, and the last one is the Swap: each room writes what it thinks the other’s book says about them, and then the room it is about corrects the list.
Leader guide with full teaching notes · participant handouts · EN/FR
Eight sessions
The Let’s Talk Premarital Course — a couple’s journal they write in, walked through with a pastor or a certified Guide, ending in three good endings rather than one: proceed with wisdom, pause for growth, or part with peace.
Couple’s journal · facilitator’s guide · the Guide’s Manual · EN/FR
Eight sessions · or a weekend
The Happily Ever After Course. A couple’s journal again — drift, repair, money and the load, delight, intimacy, and the next ten years — ending with a covenant they write in their own handwriting and sign.
Couple’s journal · facilitator’s guide · retreat timetable · EN/FR
Four meetings · six sessions
Not married-only, and that is deliberate. Singles, engaged and married in the same programme, split by sex rather than by season. Running it married-only teaches the single person that the subject begins at the wedding, which is the lie that damaged them in the first place.
The rule that does not bend: we teach the conversation, never the performance. Nobody is asked how often, how, or how well.
Leader guide · track cards · the safeguarding part for this subject · EN/FR
Ready now: the Guide’s Manual, the Singles Course, Let’s Talk About Sex, and the Happily Ever After Course in both its couple’s journal and facilitator’s versions. Being written: the course-leader training pack and the printable handout sets, and every church that has bought the materials receives them as they are released, at no extra cost. We would rather tell you that than sell you a folder that does not exist yet.
The training
This is the part that makes the material work, and it is the part most churches skip when they buy a curriculum off a shelf.
How to run a session, how to hold a discussion without letting one voice take it, what to do when somebody cries, and the safeguarding module — which is examined, and which nobody teaches from this material without passing.
The people who will actually teach it. A pastor and a mentor couple is the usual shape. Every room needs a same-sex leader — a women’s room led by a woman, a men’s room by a man — so bring both.
You are not buying a dependency. Once your leaders are trained they train the people who come after them, and the material is written plainly enough to make that possible.
Ask us
This form is the whole of it. It reaches us as an email, a person reads it, and you get prices for the materials and the training, in English or French, usually within two working days.
The assessments are free and open. Talk to us when you want the courses behind them.