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Sample · the Let’s Talk Assessment
This is a short version of the Pre-Marriage Assessment: two questions for each of the eight conversations instead of the full hundred and twenty. Answer as yourself. We will model a partner’s answers so you can see exactly how a Conversation Map is built and what a debrief starts from.
Your Conversation Map
Green means you agree, on purpose. Amber means a live difference, or an assumption you have mistaken for an agreement. Rust means the door has not been opened.
Your three most urgent doors, ranked, with the questions to ask each other this week.
Alignment is how closely your answers match. Disclosure is whether you have actually discussed it. Heat is how charged the subject runs.
| Conversation | Alignment | Disclosure | Heat | Door |
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A hundred and twenty questions instead of sixteen, both partners answering rather than one, a sixteen-page report by email and WhatsApp, a separate Guide’s edition with your written answers and a four-session plan, and a Check-Up in later years that shows which doors opened and which closed again.